Monday, October 31, 2011

Piece of Candy, Go For a Ride?

So I have been hearing “Trunk or Treat” and even saw a sign in a church parking lot for a “Trunk or Treat.”  I thought it was a typo because, come on, we’ve all had it happen and just sort of run with it at least once (my blog is proof of my embracing mine).  Today being Halloween I was thinking about this “Trunk or Treat” business and decided to google it.  
I like to go to Wikipedia for my answers.  Wikipedia: Trunk or Treat 
Picture this: a huge parking lot with the back ends of vans and trucks decorated in a variety of fun themes; complete with games and treats. Maybe in one section of the lot there is an inflatable bounce house and in another section there is a puppet show. From babies on up to grandpas and grandmas, there is something for everyone. What a fun way to spend the evening as a family!  In many communities churches sponsor the fun event and families plan their own theme for their vehicle. Sometimes elementary schools, sororities, and large neighborhoods sponsor one as well. The best part of Trunk-or-Treating is that the parking lot is roped off, freeing kids to skip or stroll from place to place.” 
And lastly, here are pictures. 
WTF??!!?  
Who really thought it would be a good idea to encourage children to go up to decorated trunks for candy?  What is stopping some total creepo from doing just that and nabbing your child?  Come one, seriously.  We complain about all the bad poop going on, but aren’t we just making it happen by doing totally stupid crap like this?
It’s just great how the churches are putting these “lets give small children the idea that it’s okay to take candy from strangers with decorated cars/vans” ideas (vans?  really?  Nothing creepy about that, right?  *eye roll*).  What is so hard about going door to door with a parent/older sibling/approved adult?  Or what about going to a party?  
It’s a sad world we live in if walking door to door for free candy has become an inconvenience.  I get that some people don't live near people, but when I was growing up those people went and trick or treated in a friends neighborhood or went to a Halloween party.  If you don’t want to do the door to door, there are parties or fall festivities to be enjoyed.  Try that, instead of activities that only help bad people steal and molest your children. 

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Hello Blog

I miss blogging.  I'm trying to get back into it.  I'm lacking brain power and motivation.  The cat is curled up on the foot stool with her back to me, an intended gesture I'm sure.  I found her under the blankets on my side of the bed this morning and removed her.  She was not happy about that, and has been giving me looks all day.  I'm trying not to let it get to me.  I can handle the cold...butt?... from the cat.  I'm just gonna sit her and watch Resident Evil: Apocalypse.  Yup.  Not letting it get to me.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Time Sure Flies!

11 years.  That is how long I have been married to the love of my life.  It may not seem like a long time, and to others it may seem like too long.  Well, I’m of the school that there is never enough time with the one you love.  Never.  And to me, 11 years is a pretty big deal. 

In the 11 years we have been together we have watched other marries fall apart.  We have experienced losses together, something not all couples can survive.  We have experienced disappointment, our immediate family consists of the two of us and a cat who only tolerates us on the third Tuesday in months that don’t end Y, H, T and R.  We have experienced fights (more of them my fault than I’d care to admit) but we don’t go to bed mad (often).  And David has put up with more than his share of my crazy train.  

In the 11 years we have been together we have watched our extended family grow.  We get to be the Uncle and Aunt to some pretty amazing kids.  We have faced every one of the things in the above paragraph that could of pushed us apart and only grown closer together.  We have a cat.  We enjoy our time together going to places we both enjoy and doing things we both enjoy (beer).  We have laughed more than we have fought (at ourselves and some of the really stupid things we have seen).  And I know what the shit comes down (Zombie Apocalypse) David is going to be there for me 100%.  

In the 11 years we have been together I have learned a lot.  Marriage is not easy.  Marriage is worth it.  The best things in life, you really do have to work for.  It’s like this intricate song you don’t get the sheet music for, you have to figure out the notes as you go.  Sometimes you are going to hit a wrong not or miss a note.  You just have to keep playing and work out those runs/cords.  You can’t get caught up on the small stuff, you have to play through the tough stuff and most importantly DON’T GIVE UP.  When you take a moment, like I am now, to look back you don’t remember all the wrong notes and mistakes.  You see this beautiful body of music you contributed to.  That part that sounded strangely like Bjork was mine, sorry.

For the last 11 years I have been incredibly lucky.  I am proud of all we have worked through and experienced together.  I’m lucky that I have a husband who is in this for the long haul and sees what we have is something worth all the work.  Thank you for the 11 years of love, security, growing and incredible memories.  Here is to more years of our funky song and hopefully some head-bites.  I love you sweetheart!

~Emily (quack)

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Family

While my sweetheart was away, my sister came down to keep me company and brought her munchkins with her.  Here are some snapshots of the afternoon!

"Why yes, I am pretty!"

W was copying Peanut, but she didn't seem to mind!

Sorry Melanie, I had fun being goofy with you and while we might look a little medically altered (which we are not) you still have a great smile :D

"And this is my pony... and this one..."

That scary pink nappy thing W is holding is a snugglebum.  Anyone remember those creepy things?

~Emily

Monday, July 18, 2011

There Can Never Be Too Much Puppy!

These pictures are for you David.  Since you are away, you need your cute kitty fix.  Here comes some cute!

She is planning how to eat me.  She hopes it is soon.

She is clearly impressed by everything I do!

Bird watching-we are going to have to get her some feeders!

Pretty kitty <3

4 sleeps and a really long day and you'll be home to us!  Hope you had a good Monday night.  We love you!

~Emily

Wallowing

I know I haven't posted in awhile.  I couldn't really tell you what I've been doing.  Lots of stuff?  Maybe.   Right now I'm too busy feeling sorry for myself because David left this morning for CA for the week.  I know he's just as miserable as I am, so I'm wallowing for him too.  I need to get ready for work, but I'm having trouble finding the motivation.  I hope this week goes fast.  :(

~Emily

Thursday, February 17, 2011

A Girl and Her Car (A Love Story) Part 2

It's been a while, for part one go here.

What was different this morning was David was the one trying to put my bag in the car and safely get my coffee in the cup holder.  The passenger side door did open for him, but it was moist inside and the getting the cup into the holder was not an easy task.  I got in and started the car to warm it up so I could shift out of park.  While the car warmed up David said with his most serious of faces, "we need to get you a new car."  I think I gave my usual response of something like "it's paid off, I'll drive it until it dies" or "we will at some point."  As annoying as the morning routine was, I was kind of getting used to it.  As much as I wanted a new car, it was nice not having to make the payments.  I could wait awhile longer.  The car warmed up, I was able to shift out of park and away I went.  Thinking noting more of the morning car routine.

I had been at work for an hour or so when David started sending me IMs about cars.  He told me it was time to seriously start looking, and that prices were not so bad right now.  He sent me links to cars at our local Dodge dealership and we talked about what I really had my heart set on (a charger!) and what I could live with out (sun/moon roof).  I really wanted a silver or dark grey colored car.  Nothing in red or blue (the Jetta was blue).  I had had some time to really think about the car, and given that there were some better deals and options on cars that were not my Charger, if I was going to actually get a Charger I would be happy with whatever features it had.  I agreed that I would have to be flexible on color, but David agreed that a spoiler was a complete deal breaker (we both think they look horrible on the car).  We tentatively talked about going to the dealership that weekend and checking things out.  There were a couple online that David said he was going to call the dealership about and do a little research before we went down.  I was not looking forward to the car buying dance, but the thought of no more jetta issues was really really nice.  I didn't hear anything back from David for the longest time, and then I got busy.  I figured he got busy with work and we'd talk about things more when I was home.  I completely forgot about it.

Work got really busy, and it was one of those days where we had people coming and going.  For us, that is a crazy day.  I was in the middle of a project when I happen to glance out the window and see David walking up.  I head out of my office to go out to meet him, as I head past our windows I note his truck isn't visible.  Larry was also standing at the windows and he says to me as I'm walking out the door "wow that's nice!"  I have no idea what he's talking about until I get to the front door.  David met me in the lobby and asked if I could come out side with him for a few minutes.  That's when I see the Charger.  He takes me over to it and asks me what I think.  It's silver, there is no spoiler, and I see the magic word "hemi."  I tell him it's beautiful!  Then he says a bunch of other stuff that I hear but not entirely because I am in a state of shock that this silver beast is sitting in my parking lot!  He said something about the blue Charger he was first interested in ended up having a spoiler, as did the others he was interested in and that they sales guy kind of thought it was funny that that was a deal breaker and showed David the car I was now looking at.  I may have muttered something about it having a hemi, and he quieted that with a "it's actually not that much more for the hemi, and it is at a great price right now."  Then he introduced me to the sales guy, who I didn't even notice was there.  He told me that they needed a little bit of information from me and that the sales guy wanted to check out the trade in.  I opened the car so he could check it out, and I gave David copies of the things he needed.  Before he left he asked me if it was what I wanted, and still in shock I told him yes.  I asked him if it was fun to drive and I got his big grin that told me it was.  They left and I was utterly distracted the rest of the afternoon.

Just as my day was coming to an end I got a text from David telling me not to leave, he was on his way with some paperwork.  First I wondered to myself if he had spent all day at the Dodge dealership.  Then I wondered if that sexy silver beastie was going to really become ours.  I was anxious for his arrival.  When he pulled up to the office he was in the Charger, followed by his truck.  The sales guy was driving the truck.  David came in and handed me a funky looking key "it's yours after you sign a stack of papers!"  Giddy doesn't even come close to describing what I was feeling!  The sales guy had all the documents for me to sign, and I signed and initialed until I couldn't feel my hand anymore.  I didn't care.  I knew what was waiting for me in the parking lot!  David had spent pretty much the whole day down at the dealership working everything out, getting the paperwork as done as he could with out me and even getting the car registered and my license plates put on.  The sales guy had come with him to my office so we wouldn't have to drive back down to the dealership.  He would drive the Jetta away and I would be driving home my dream car!  We emptied out the Jetta, I told it a civil goodbye (it had at least mostly driven me around without leaving me stranded) and then was in complete awe (and a little nervous) about driving the Charger.  David gave me a quick run down of all the things I needed to know.  I started the car and it roared to life.  I love that sound!  After David was sure I knew enough to drive it home, with a huge grin left me to sit in our new car and grin like a fool (which I still do when I remember it's really ours and I get to drive it).  The first thing I noticed was it didn't take much pressure on the gas to get it to go.  I would have to remember that, and be really careful!  It was not a big as I thought it would be, it only felt a little bit bigger than the Jetta-definitely longer.  I giggled and grinned the whole way home.  It really is my dream car!  And I have my husband to thank for making it really happen.  I know it was more than we wanted to spend, and I know gas is going to make me cringe, but... but... it's pretty!!  Every day I get into our car and drive to work I know how much my husband loves me.  I love to drive it, I love it when he drives it.  It's been a dream!  I have a feeling I'm going to be a grinning fool every time I see it for a very very long time!

And that folks, is the story of how my David surprised me with my dream car.  And now, off we drive into the sunset. :)

~Emily

PS-for those of you who said I was going to get a ticket... NO TICKET YET!